Howto get apple ichat automatically accept incoming chat requests
From How2s
If you want apple ichat to automatically accept incoming chats e.g. for usability reasons or any other reason you can think of (using ichat as security camera), you can enable this feature by typing
defaults write com.apple.ichat AutoAcceptVCInvitations 1
into your shell. Of course
defaults write com.apple.ichat AutoAcceptVCInvitations 0
will turn it off again.
